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If Dating Is All About Money, Then Your Money Is Not Enough – Dez Kobby

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Life has been structured in so many ways with the aim of everyone making money, forgetting that money can’t do everything. A man keeps on struggling to make “ends meet” and makes sure he get money to satisfy his lady in a relationship. Everyone and his or her aim in this life. However, some men’s daily bread is another men’s monthly bread. Is there any specific amount that requires to get before dating?

Buying luxurious cars and living in a big mansion of course makes you gain respect, love, etc. But it is hardly to recognized those who truly loves you. Generally, some friends and families can make you feel that you are the best of all time when you have the money. Their compliments can even uplift you from ground floor to the second floor, without ascending the stairs. Meanwhile, some will disperse when the money starts depreciating or when you find yourself in a critical condition.

Based on my perspective and experiences i have had in life, the word ‘love’ to me in a relationship is a gradual process. It’s not stable for which we can see or touch. It’s on the lips of many but only the heart can truly define the best definition of love. Any man who approaches a lady for the first time trying to expatiate the love he has for a lady is not love, but it’s rather a ‘lust’.

However, the beauty of a lady can make a man locomote from one place to the other, regardless the distance and the environment. The truth about dating a lady is not all about money. Have you ever thought about those who have all the resources but still can’t find true love ? The moment your heart starts breaking without you realizing is when you think dating a lady is all about money. The fact is that, if you are in a relationship and the lady demands money from you everyday, then she doesn’t love you. Either she has found a true love elsewhere or she needs you to help her finish her course. If a lady loves and understands you, she’ll not be asking you for money. She will be anticipating you to surprise her when you have it.

If you marry her, it’s the duty of you as the man to provide all the basic needs and the lady also to play her role of doing the household chores. It’s even good as a man to cook at home sometimes since you are the breadwinner. The secret is that, It makes the lady respect you more and becomes nervous whenever she fails to cook, because she knows you can even do it better.

The only way to make a lady fall in love without her knowledge is to make her laugh everyday.
Love is not all about something. It constitutes communication, understanding, affection, and the last is money. It goes in order. If you starts spending too much money at the beginning, you might think you are really doing all your best to make her feel better and not to date any other guy. You are rather messing up.

Follow the procedure and thank me later.

 

Article by: @Dezkobby.

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Stephanie Appiah: The Visionary Behind Hairphanie and a Champion of Natural Hair

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Stephanie Appiah, fondly referred to as Yaa Afrah, is a trendsetter in Ghana’s hair care industry. Her story is one of resilience, innovation, and empowerment, as she turned her personal struggles into a mission to help others embrace their natural hair.

Through her company, “Hairphanie”, Stephanie is reshaping narratives around African hair and inspiring women across the continent to wear their crowns with pride.

Stephanie’s hair journey began with challenges that many African women relate to. As a young girl growing up in Ghana, societal norms dictated that schoolgirls had to cut their hair short.

This stifled her ability to connect with her natural hair and learn how to care for it. After high school, she chose to relax her hair, but the decision came with devastating consequences. Scalp burns, bald patches, and hair damage became a regular part of her life.

“I felt trapped,” Stephanie recalls. “I wanted to love my hair, but I didn’t know how.”

The turning point came in 2015 when Stephanie decided to stop relaxing her hair. Despite the lack of skilled hairdressers and products tailored to natural hair in Ghana, she committed to learning everything she could about caring for her hair.

Stephanie’s dedication to her natural hair journey led her to experiment with organic ingredients, formulating her own products to address the specific needs of her hair. Friends and family soon noticed her hair’s transformation and began asking for her help. What started as a personal endeavor quickly grew into a business.

In 2019, Stephanie officially founded “Hairphanie”, combining her skills as a self-taught hair stylist and organic hair care product manufacturer. The company offers a range of organic products and professional services designed to meet the diverse needs of natural hair.

“Hairphanie’s” mission is clear; to inspire people to embrace their natural hair while providing solutions that exceed expectations.

Stephanie’s impact goes beyond hair care. She is challenging deeply rooted societal norms in Ghana that discourage women from growing and maintaining their natural hair. By sharing her story and expertise, she has inspired countless women to embark on their own natural hair journeys.

One of her most significant contributions is her work in schools, where she advocates for policy changes that allow young girls to grow their natural hair. Stephanie believes that dismantling these restrictions is key to fostering self-acceptance and empowering the next generation.

“Hair is more than aesthetics,” Stephanie explains. “It’s about identity, confidence, and freedom.”

Hairphanie’s vision extends far beyond Ghana. Stephanie aims to make the company the most preferred hair care solutions provider in Africa and beyond. She plans to become a certified trichologist within the next five years, deepening her understanding of hair and scalp health to better serve her clients.

Stephanie is also working on her book, “Breaking the Crown”, The Journey of Yaa Afrah, which will delve deeper into her story and the societal norms she is fighting to change.

Through her resilience and determination, Stephanie Appiah has proven that African hair can grow long, healthy, and beautiful with the right care. Her journey serves as a powerful reminder that beauty standards are meant to be challenged and redefined.

Stephanie’s story is not just about hair it’s about reclaiming identity, embracing individuality, and empowering others to do the same. By encouraging women to wear their natural hair with pride, she is creating a movement that celebrates African heritage and inspires self-love.

For many, Stephanie Appiah is more than an entrepreneur she is a symbol of hope, strength, and transformation. Through “Hairphanie”, she continues to prove that the crown we wear is one of beauty, resilience, and endless possibilities.

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“A year of excellence” Joe Kole Outshines All in 2024

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In the current ghanaian music space, it will be unfair to give all credit to artists without acknowledging the efforts of music producers.

One producer whom we can not turn a blind eye to his recent works is Wodzrah George, widely known as Joe Kole. From the days of Flowking Stone through to the era of King Paluta and Amerado.


The champion music producer, Joe Kole, has proven to be a timeless producer; recently being behind 80% of hit songs in ghana and being a core influence in the rise of kumerican music vibe.

Top artists such as Strongman, King Paluta, Amerado, Sista Afia, Eno Barony, Rap Father .etc are now big names because of his genius production.

There is no doubt he is a legendary producer and needs to be remembered, applauded, and most importantly, awarded in the coming TGMA.

Rap heavyweight; Eno Barony is out with No Manual album, and Joe Kole produced most of the songs on it.

Joe Kole has shown signs of never slowing down, we hope TGMA acknowledges him. To know him more, you can follow him on

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