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If Dating Is All About Money, Then Your Money Is Not Enough – Dez Kobby



Life has been structured in so many ways with the aim of everyone making money, forgetting that money can’t do everything. A man keeps on struggling to make “ends meet” and makes sure he get money to satisfy his lady in a relationship. Everyone and his or her aim in this life. However, some men’s daily bread is another men’s monthly bread. Is there any specific amount that requires to get before dating?

Buying luxurious cars and living in a big mansion of course makes you gain respect, love, etc. But it is hardly to recognized those who truly loves you. Generally, some friends and families can make you feel that you are the best of all time when you have the money. Their compliments can even uplift you from ground floor to the second floor, without ascending the stairs. Meanwhile, some will disperse when the money starts depreciating or when you find yourself in a critical condition.

Based on my perspective and experiences i have had in life, the word ‘love’ to me in a relationship is a gradual process. It’s not stable for which we can see or touch. It’s on the lips of many but only the heart can truly define the best definition of love. Any man who approaches a lady for the first time trying to expatiate the love he has for a lady is not love, but it’s rather a ‘lust’.

However, the beauty of a lady can make a man locomote from one place to the other, regardless the distance and the environment. The truth about dating a lady is not all about money. Have you ever thought about those who have all the resources but still can’t find true love ? The moment your heart starts breaking without you realizing is when you think dating a lady is all about money. The fact is that, if you are in a relationship and the lady demands money from you everyday, then she doesn’t love you. Either she has found a true love elsewhere or she needs you to help her finish her course. If a lady loves and understands you, she’ll not be asking you for money. She will be anticipating you to surprise her when you have it.

If you marry her, it’s the duty of you as the man to provide all the basic needs and the lady also to play her role of doing the household chores. It’s even good as a man to cook at home sometimes since you are the breadwinner. The secret is that, It makes the lady respect you more and becomes nervous whenever she fails to cook, because she knows you can even do it better.

The only way to make a lady fall in love without her knowledge is to make her laugh everyday.
Love is not all about something. It constitutes communication, understanding, affection, and the last is money. It goes in order. If you starts spending too much money at the beginning, you might think you are really doing all your best to make her feel better and not to date any other guy. You are rather messing up.

Follow the procedure and thank me later.


Article by: @Dezkobby.

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CEO/Lead Designer Of McParry Designs Wins Best Graphic Designer Award




Michael Asiamah popularly known as Michael Parry or Mr Parry is the CEO/Lead Designer of McParry Designs Consult established in the year 2020 and located in Ghana – Kumasi that provides designs and digital solutions for individuals and businesses.

He is a multi-disciplinary designer who has churned out great and eye – catchy designs in the past and recent years.

Together with his amazing team he has made McParry Designs Consult become one of the notable creative design Agencies that works with professionalism and delivers great works in Ghana.

In the recent edition of Leadership Conference and Business Honors held at Hi-Table event center in Madina-Accra, he was honored as the Best Graphic designer of the year 2023. This honor can be attributed to the marvelous creative design works he has executed in the past years and the year under review.


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SHS Student Changes The Narrative Against Fashion In Central Region




In this era of enterprenuership, it is a blessing to find Ghana endowed with so much talented younglings who will affect the economic society with so much financial exploits in the nearest future through their intrinsic abilities.

One fine young student of Kwegyir Aggrey Senior Technical High School, Muniratu Jibril is fast gaining popularity as one of the best student designers in Central Region. As a Home Science student, her expertise in fashion is unpaired. From creating complex but nice designs and slaying on the runway during fairs is something that wows even her tutors. Her savoir faire abilities can also not be left out.

Although a student, Muniratu is said to be designing clothes for people for functions like weddings, engagements, graduations, et all.

It is due to her prowess that drove High Schools Youtuber, Goshers of High Schools Africa on youtube to do a documentary of Muniratu’s creative process and her dreams and aspirations in the future.

Watch from below her conversation with the team of High Schools Africa.



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